A mixture of entertainment gossip, fashion, my thoughts, and things I just love.
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Friday, March 5, 2010
On to the Next One... My New Blogging Home
Okay, that was the homie Jay-Z, but you get the point.
As I watched In a Perfect World... flourish and grow and readership increase, I felt the need to give my loyal readers something new to look at.
As a result, I starting tinkering with things and trying to apply the new awesome logo my generous friend had provided me. I document that entire ordeal HERE. Not being able to restore my blog to its previous splendor presented me with a new opportunity.
I have had my blog with Blogger since 2007. It started with humble beginnings and rants about things of minimal importance to me (or my readers back then). If you get a chance, go back and look at original postings, it's quite humorous actually.
In 2009, I promised myself I would attempt to create my own following posting things I wanted to see. I found myself visiting multiple sites a day to get the relevant information I needed for my daily gossip fix. I decided there must be other people out there similar to me. And thus, the new In a Perfect World... emerged. I love it! And I love Blogger. But it's limiting.
Consequently, I have moved my blog, and all past posts, over to Wordpress. The page is still a work in progress, but I am very excited for the prospects using Wordpress presents. I can track readers more easily, include a more integrated viewing experience, and still continue to provide all the information and gossip you want. My new site also includes a free mobile supported site for those that read on the go. Wordpress also allows for an easier transition to a unique domain, my ultimate goal.
My orginal blog still exists in its full entirety, but there will be no new postings to
http://traysay8.blogspot.com.
So follow me over to Wordpress!! The new site is
http://perfectworld8.wordpress.com
As stated, it's a work in progress. But tell me what you think! I still have the same Twitter page for the blog as well:
http://twitter.com/Perfect_World8
Thank you for being a loyal reader. Stay tuned for bigger and better things!
*make sure you switch your bookmarks over*
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Girl, Where Have You Been?!


Aren't they awesome?!
Welp, I messed up something really badly and my blog hasn't been the same since. My wonderful friend Chris (who also designed my logos) fixed the major problem, bless his soul. But before I let him handle anything, I mistakenly deleted some of my original stuff. All of the content is still here, but a lot of my custom features and pictures and stuff have disappeared. :-(
I wanted to pull my hair out. I examined joining WordPress, and I still may. But that's seems just as frustrating as blogging with the current state that my blog is in. So I'm kinda stuck as to where I wanna go from here.
I'm stuck between working on developing this blog and customizing it to my liking, or completely abandoning it for Wordpress which offers more behind the scenes action.
Bear with me as I figure it all out. I promise it won't be much longer til I'm back with my gossip and opinions.
If you have any thoughts or comments about my next move, I am welcome to hear them.
*sigh*
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
MAGAZINE WORLD: Wale Talks Relationship Titles

I, on the other hand, believe a title is the second most effective form of validating one’s affection, next to “puttin’ a rang on it.” You see, some people look at titles as simple vernacular, a way of claiming a piece of property. Claiming someone as my girlfriend is a reflection of pride. Being able to look my girl in a room full of vultures, corporate folk, beautiful women, and dudes in search of ass and cleavage and being able to say, ‘Hey, this is my girl.’ It’s like saying, ‘Out of the six billion people on this planet, this is the one person entitled to every facet of me.’ This is who consumes my thoughts, this is who motivates me to be a better person, she is my she. In my opinion titles create a level of security for a woman. Us men like to have the safety valve. The option to be able to say, ‘But we’re not in a relationship.’ In other words, a get-out-of-pu$$y-jail-free card. It essentially allows you to fuck who you want, when you want — without any significant repercussions.
I’ve also been in love with a woman who didn’t want commitment, but still treated our relationship as a monogamous situation. In retrospect, maybe I should have been okay with it, but the lingering frustration with the apparent imbalance of #thatthing, pushed me to say some things that eventually ruined our friendship.
Your thoughts?
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Tuesday, March 2, 2010
BLOG WORLD: Kayne Speaks on Creativity

Aside from the grammatical errors... interesting thoughts indeed. It definitely increases my anticipation for the album. Peep his original post HERE.
VIDEO WORLD:" Drop the World" & "All I Do is Win"
A friend thought it would be too dark to tape a video to, but how could you not create a video to such an epic track?!
DJ Khaled premiered his new video for "All I Do is Win" on 106th & Park today. I don't really care for DJ Khaled, but I like the song. And I appreciate Ludacris' new zeal for rhyming. Peep the video below.
If you don't have the track, click HERE to download it.
I swear I am trying SO hard to not like Rick Ross, but I am failing terribly. His verses lately have caught my attention.
MUSIC WORLD: TIP's Twitter is a Fake?!?

“major announcement coming Monday 3/8 @ 5pm EST on www.trapmuzik.com #kingsback”
Interesting, since his fiancee Tiny immediately answered the fans asking about the account. And she says it ain’t Clifford:
*UPDATE* His rep says: “It’s a portal for Atlantic and Grand Hustle to officially post everything T.I.,” the rep stated. “T.I. himself is not on Twitter.”
Video of T.I. saying he would never do Twitter when your read the rest…
Well, there you have it. I can't lie, I was excited The King was going to be tweeting, but it does seem a bit out of character for him and his lifestyle. I'm still gonna follow for official updates though.
MUSIC WORLD: Lil' Wayne is Still a Free Man

Something smells fishy... but he's to report to court tomorrow to receive his official sentencing. We shall see what delays it this time.
Read more over at the NY Times Blog.
TV WORLD: TAKE IT BACK TUESDAYS- "The Lyricist Lounge Show"
Back when MTV actually focused on music, they were cranking out good shows, like "The Lyricist Lounge Show." The whole premise of the show is sketch comedy set to a beat. Many famous artists stopped by the show to participate in the scenes including Erykah Badu, Cee-Lo, Common, and Snoop Dogg.

Ahh... good television. And these mofos were talented.
Monday, March 1, 2010
VIDEO WORLD: Big Boi in the Studio & "Roger That;"
*sigh* Where are you Big Boi? That's good music! I hope his new solo album isn't imaginary like Detox.
Young Money premiered their new video to "Roger That" on 106 & Park today. This was one of the rumored 82 videos Weezy taped before heading to begin his prison sentence. Peep the comic book inspired video below.
Typical Young Money vid.
MAGAZINE WORLD: XXL & Ebony

After much hooplah and debate over the inclusion of OJ Da Juiceman, XXL has stood by their decision. I don't see the big deal. OJ Da Juiceman probably is gonna blow up this year. That doesn't mean you have to rock with him... You can watch Freestyle vids from the Freshman 10 over at XXL.
And the very beautiful Sade covers the new Ebony magazine.

VIDEO WORLD: Trey Songz "Neighbors Know My Name"
Saturday, February 27, 2010
PHOTO WORLD: NAACP Image Awards
My favorite of the night, Keri Hilson looked stunning in her all black ensemble.







Click here for a list of all the winners.
Friday, February 26, 2010
TV WORLD: The Boondocks are Back!!
There was an early trailer announcing the comeback of The Boondocks. The date provided is incorrect though. It has been confirmed that May 2 is the official premiere date.
Until that date, peep a clip of one of my favorite episodes, The Story of Ganstalicious, Pt. 2 (in three parts).
Yes! The Boondocks AND True Blood this summer?! I can't take it!
Thursday, February 25, 2010
FASHION WORLD: Pharrell for BBC & Ice Cream
PHOTO WORLD: Amber Rose; Eva & Lance


He has since added a few more posts. I hope that this will coincide with some new music from Kanye!!
Uber cute couple Eva Pigford & Lance Gross recently did a photoshoot together. The photoshoot represented a day in the life of Lance Gross. Lance Twitpic'd some of the pictures and YBF snatched em up. Peep the photos below.




But they are gonna make some beautiful babies!
MUSIC WORLD: Turk of Hot Boys Brother Gunned Down

Peep Turk's letter to Ozone Magazine.
My condolences to Turk and his family. Thank Nik for the heads up!
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Wednesday, February 24, 2010
VIDEO WORLD: Drake and Nicki Minaj Declined XXL
Hmmm, interesting. I wonder who will be the last 4 videos XXL has yet to reveal.
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OPINION WORLD: Sprite Step Off 2010 Winners Are.... ZETA TAU ALPHA?!? *UPDATED*

First and foremost, they did a good job. But that isn't what I am here to address.
Before I get into the Greek portion of this discussion, let me first address the obvious. This is a white sorority with white steppers in an event that is catered to black fraternities and sororities and black steppers. This is MY blog, so I am going to state my opinion. We (as in Black people) have been and will always be representative of what is popular culture. We know that as we watch people emulate our style, our creativity, our finesse. Our culture is rich and full of history. This history includes Black Greek life. Say what you want about the rumors or stories associated with being a Black Greek, but as a whole, I find the experience to be both enriching and essential to who I am today.
In my experience as a Black Greek, I have learned the meaning behind many of the traditions we do. Many of them are sacred to us and hold special meaning. Some are newer than others, but the age does not determine the weighted value of the tradition. Yes, the Black Greek system has its roots in Masonic beliefs and traditions. Yes, Black Greek organizations mirrored that of white Greek organizations when we as a people were not allowed to become members of the organization. Symbolic hand signs, strolling, and stepping were uniquely Black Greek experiences. Line jackets, "ship names," and "line names" also developed.
The Black Greek experience has been watered down due to popular culture. But we've seen that done with just about everything. The difference is many traditions in Black Greek life are sealed in secrecy. The issue with watering down specific traditions that are essential to the Black Greek experience is the public doesn't see the value. I will not go into a long and storied history of movies like "School Daze" and "Stomp the Yard" and their effect on Black Greek life.
My focus are the women of Zeta Tau Alpha and their win in the Sprite Step Off. I am not an early Malcolm X (though I do idolize him). I do not believe we need to create separation to achieve equality. I do, however, feel that some things to need to be held sacred to maintain unique cultural identities. There are conflicting views of the orgins of stepping within BGLOs. Despite the dispute, is it not a Black thing?!? I find it disturbing that a white sorority would even consider entering a competition that is aimed towards Black fraternities and sororities. Even the advertising was clearly aimed towards us. My Line Sister and Pledge Daughter taped the local commercial for the event!
What have we lost as Black Greek lettered organizations? I am not saying our focus should instead be primarly stepping. But aren't BGLOs multi-faceted? Isn't the beauty of our organizations that we know how to incorporate the social aspect with the academic and political and service points of our respective fraternities and sororities? Is anything sacred?
I commend Zeta Tau Alpha for a good show. But I am also worried that traditions of value that are unique to the Black Greek experience are being lost. I am in no way dissing Zeta Tau Alpha. The did really well. What do you think?!
Your thoughts are GREATLY appreciated.
*UPDATE*
An official Sprite spokesperson released this statement via the Facebook group.
After the National Finals Competition this past weekend in Atlanta wrapped, we got together to do our post-competition review and found a scoring discrepancy in the sorority results. After looking at it and looking at it AGAIN, we determined there isn’t a definitive resolution.
Sprite is all about preserving the honesty and integrity of this competition. Because the scoring discrepancy can’t be resolved and due to the really tight margin between the first and second place sorors, we feel that the only right thing to do is to name both Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Tau Chapter & Zeta Tau Alpha, Epsilon Chapter, co-first place winners of the Sprite Step Off.
With these revised results, we’re gonna increase Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Tau Chapter’s scholarship prize to $100K, consistent with what Zeta Tau Alpha also got for their first prize winnings.
Thanks again to everyone who helped make The Sprite Step Off happen. And to one last stroll in the name of unity..."
The women of Alpha Kappa Alpha, Tau Chapter, were bumped up to first place as well. Here is the OTHER winning performance... smh
What is the credibility of the competition looking like now?
MUSIC WORLD: Yung Berg Robbed... AGAIN?!?!
TMZ said Yung Berg was a victim of a robbery during a house party. The assailants left with $10K work of jewelry and money. In the process, Yung Berg got pistol whipped.

Why does he need to release a video you ask?? Yung Berg has been the victim of multiple robberies, assaults, and down right disrespectful actions since he hit the scene. Needless to say, his "street cred" is constantly in question (if he has any left).
GOSSIP WORLD: Keyshia Had Her Baby?!; T.I. Spoils Tiny; No More J. Lo Songs?!


In other baby news, Christinia Milian is STILL pregnant with The Dream's baby. Word on the street, the little girl's name will be Violet.

T.I. is still giving his ride or die Tiny stuff while he's serving the rest of his term. He recently added a Porche Panamera Turbo to the long list of gifts.


In other (less interesting) news, Jenny from the Block is has been dumped. Jennifer Lopez has been dropped from Sony.

But do not fret J. Lo fans. She has reportedly signed another deal with an undisclosed label. Her new album, Love, is expected to be released this summer through her new label. Jennifer Lopez will also be the guest host on this week's Saturday Night Live. The world is at peace now.
MOVIE WORLD: Richard Pryor Movie


I actually like Marlon Wayans and I think he can do it. He has great comedic timing and is one of the more talented Wayans family members in my opinion. In a recent LA Times interview, he commented on the naysayers:
The movie 'Richard Pryor: "Is it Something I Said?"' is being produced by Happy Madison and Sony.
Until the movie, enjoy one of my favorite clips from Richard Pryor's standup "Live on the Sunset Strip. He discusses his experiences with love.
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SPORTS WORLD: Kobe Bryant's $700 Shoes

Would you cop?
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Tuesday, February 23, 2010
VIDEO WORLD: Monica's "Everything to Me"
Monica looks pretty as usual. Her fashion choices are interesting in a good way. Keep an eye out for her new album, Still Standing, set to hit stores March 22, 2010. Glad she's back!
VIDEO WORLD: Kanye West's "Coldest Winter"
"Coldest Winter" is definitely one of my fave tracks from the album. This mix presented in this video is rumored to be made available on iTunes in the near future.
I'm anxious to hear where Kanye West takes Good Ass Job, the rumored title of his next album.
SPORTS WORLD: Jayson Williams Sentenced

After the 2002 incident involving the death of his limo driver, Jayson Williams has been involved in a suicide attempt, a bar fight, and a drunken car crash. He has finally been sentence to 5 years with the eligibility of parole after 18 months, for the death of his limo driver.
Damn homie...
VIDEO WORLD: Take It Back Tuesdays- Nas "If I Ruled the World"
I love the idea, sound, and look of this song and video. It was so flashy and 90's appropriate. Even inspirational. This was Nas' first Top 20 song and was even nominated for a Grammy in 1997.
Monday, February 22, 2010
VIDEO WORLD: Drake Talks Inspiration; Lil' Wayne Shows His Grill; Rihanna's Mini Streaptease; Diddy & Son's Sweet 16
Drake says the album will "sound happier" and "more victorious" representing his life. He also cites Nas as an influence.
Lil' Wayne and Lil' Twist got on ustream last night and he showed his teeth post his 8 root canals. Random 7 minutes of my life I'll never get back. But you can peep the video below.
What's up with Lil' Twist's hair though?! Sobriety is obviously not the goal prior to his prison sentencing. Oh and in case you didn't know, Lil' Wayne now has a twitter page as well @liltunchi *confused look*
Rihanna celebrated her birthday this weekend in Pheonix with Matt Kemp. Despite denying that they are indeed a couple, Matt Kemp spent time planning a surprise party for Rihanna. He even provided a mini streap tease.
I understand all in good fun, but I am slightly perplexed by the entertainment value. Rihanna's dress was cute though!
And in case you missed it, Diddy's son Justin has a sweet 16 party that aired on MTV. Peep the full episode below.
What I wouldn't give to be Diddy's child for a day (or my lifetime)...
MUSIC WORLD: Music Monday Playlist
Today’s addition to the blog is:
MUSIC MONDAY PLAYLIST
This week’s theme is Grindin’ & Hustlin'. As I find my footing for the blog, attempt to figure out my career goals, and focus on making more money, I find these songs provide a little motivation for me. None of them are hidden gems this go ‘round. Just simple songs about being the best you can me and maintaining your motivation.

Hope you enjoy it and leave your comments below about future themes you’d like to see. See you next week with a new playlist.
VIDEO WORLD: Sade on Wanda Sykes
So, maybe I've been under a rock, but I didn't know Sade's voice sounded like that.
Saturday, February 20, 2010
MUSIC WORLD: Jay-Z Over in London Town
Peep the interview below.
Funny dude. He also performed one of my fave tracks from Blueprint 3, "On to the Next One."
I think he really enjoys what he does. Still boycotting linings I see...
Thanks World Star Hip Hop!
Friday, February 19, 2010
VIDEO WORLD: "My Chick Bad" Ludacris x Nicki Minaj
Nicki Minaj actually plays crazy in this video. How appropriate. And check for cameos from Eve, Trina, and Diamond. They will be included in the remix to the song.
MUSIC WORLD: Lil Wayne's Dental Dilemma
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MAGAZINE WORLD: Nicki Minaj Covers Fader + Bonus Clip
Anywho, Nicki Minaj is gracing the cover of the March 2, 2010 Fader magazine.

Fader posted a video interview back in May 2009 before many of us even knew her name. Peep the video below.
Her stage training is apparent in the way she delivers and performs. Her eyelashes were killing me softly though. Cop the new Fader mag March 2, 2010 for the full interview.
BONUS MATERIAL:
Michelle Trachtenberg most famously from "Gossip Girl" and Harriet the Spy (though I know her from Euro Trip) was taped spitting Nicki Minaj's verse from "Shaking it for Daddy."

Peep the video below...
Funny.